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IEP Transitional Placement Meeting

Last week we had Bilal’s IEP transitional meeting for kindergarten placement. We also went over his goals and updated goals required for the remaining of the school year and the beginning of the next school year till his 6th birthday. It all went really smoothly and alhamdullah I’m glad by the attention and dedication his team have for Bilal’s continued progress. Ms. Norton the special ed instructor from Manning Oaks was invited to attend and she continued to take down a lot of notes and better explain the system at her school. It was agreed that he attend typical kindergarten with speech, OT and 2.5 periods a day of special instruction mainly for writing and any other instruction he would need. His OT has been reduced from an hour a week to half an hour a week. He’s got scissor cutting and pencil grip learnt but just needs to improve his arm alignment while holding the pencil to press harder and be able to actually write instead of draw his letters, smaller and neater writing. His only remaining special goals are the use of a “fidget toy” something to keep his fingers occupied so he can pay attention better, and a little one-on-one talk with a teacher to learn that he doesn’t need to be a perfectionist and speed his work. His speech goals are mainly to improve articulation and grammar structure and be able to use more adjectives.

We did it! 2 years of special education and therapy have prepared him to attend a typical kindergarten with typical peers, he’ll have a normal day at school with reading, writing, math, science, social studies, art, music and PE. He’ll ride the typical bus to and from school. He’ll move from a class of 9 students (7 boys, 2 girls) to a class of a maximum of 22 students with a more equal mix of boys and girls

Towards the end of the month local schools have Kindergarten Tours, where parents and little kids can tour the school, have a snack at the cafeteria and take a ride in a school bus, parents take home the registration package and have any questions answered. Then the week before school starts (August) they have orientation again to tour or ask questions and by then their homeroom classes and buses would have been assigned and we’d get our school supply lists. I’m super excited and optimistic that Bilal will do just fine and hopefully make a friend or two inshaAllah.

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Progress Acheived

Cant even think about this or write about this without thanking God for answering our prayers because none of this would have been possible without His Glory and without the prayers, love and thoughts of our family and friends.

Yesterday was Bilal’s 9 month follow up appointment at his developmental pediatrician. She sees him every 9 months and runs some tests, language, IQ, observation kind of questions which tells us his developmental level compared to typical peers.

In  August 2011, he was 3 years and 10 months (almost 4) but he scored the developmental level of a 2 year old. An almost 2 year gap between him and his peers. This is when she gave him the diagnosis of mild autism.

9 months later in May 2012 he was 4 years 8 months old and he scored at the developmental level of 4 years 1 month, a gap of only 7 months. From 2 years to 7 months. 9 months of school and private therapy. She was amazed and told me to just continue what we’re doing and she was optimistic but more surprised really.

Another 9 months later in February 2013 (at the age of 5 years, 5 months) he scored above average (6 years, Kindergarten level) in math, average in receptive language and on the lower end of average for writing skills. In just 18 months of school and therapies he has caught up with his peers developmentally and surpassed them in math. I couldn’t be happier, I’m so proud of him, I cant help the tears of happiness every time I think about it. The doctor was really impressed and excited about his future. I could see the progress and know he’s been doing amazingly with his therapists considering discharge in the near future but to be told his scores is a whole different level of happiness. Alhamdullilah! So he’s caught up with his peers intellectually, academically and developmentally, but we still have more to this journey, we’ve overcome our biggest hurdles, but the tests don’t show how he fits socially, his confidence, it doesn’t show how peers will treat him, and it sure doesn’t show us his future. This month I’m busy with kindergarten observations, phone calls and discussions with teachers and therapists to figure out the best placement for him next year. The developmental pediatrician agrees with me that both class settings of typical kindergarten or special ed class have benefits and risks and its really all up in the air, she would like a mix of both which isn’t possible but we could provide him with lots of resources and assistance if needed.  She wants to see him again in October after he’s started kindergarten and to see how he’s doing.

If someone would have told me or if I had stronger faith in God, back in August 2011 that in 2 years this is where we would be I wouldn’t have believed it, when you’re given a diagnosis you just feel devastated and negative, you do your best but that diagnosis like a black cloud is always on your mind you cant shake it off, and you keep having thoughts of this isn’t enough, you want more, you push and shove and I was really strict and stern with Bilal not allowing him to slack off and alhamdilluah we’ve been blessed, blessed with amazing grandparents from both sides that haven’t stopped praying for him, for friends and family, insurance, finances  dedicated therapists and teachers, and for our health and determination to keep going and not giving up.

I’ll be posting another post within the month detailing our kindergarten placement and IEP meeting results. and as always dont stop praying for Bilal and for continued progress in all aspects of his life inshaAllah.

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