Its the summer a long vacation with long days, a lot of time to fill up and keep a child occupied, a child that doesn’t know how to fill his time on his own, used to having structure and told what to do. Bilal gets bored quickly and easily. He wakes up and asks to play on the XBox, he plays for a few minutes and then turns it off and turns on the laptop to watch a couple episodes of Power Rangers, he then shuts it and starts pacing around the house, he then asks for the XBox again and so on and so forth. He might play or fight with his little brother we’ll go attend one of his therapies etc but that’s pretty much it. He’s not into arts and crafts or books, so it isn’t easy for me to figure out something for him to do to keep occupied, the weather is hot and indoor activities are usually costly. Summer camps are essential for him and just trying to change it up. A board game or legos, or cards, play doh, a day at the grandparents, a shopping trip etc. I used to get bored easily when I was a teenager and would state quite often “I’m bored!” my mom says I take after my uncle, but we both didn’t pace around the house, I tried to keep occupied by watching TV or reading books but Bilal doesnt keep to anything long enough. He still doesnt use the phase “I’m bored” but his actions say it all.
I’ve seen that a couple people used the search term “summer regression” when visiting my blog, thankfully Bilal doesnt regress during the summer, whatever skills he’s learnt over the year he retains, we also keep up with his weekly therapies so skills are kept intact, its the boredom and behavior issues that arise during the summer or vacations longer than 3 days. He may ignore rules, or fight with his brother more, more frustrated and angry, all something to amuse himself with when he’s bored.
We’ve started summer camp this week, even though its only 3 hours in the morning its something that tires him out and fills a small void in the day. In 2 weeks he starts the YMCA camp which is 7 hours long which I think will be perfect in keeping him occupied and worn out.
Yesterday he had a fever and complained of leg pain, I’m guessing a bad case of growing pains, but he was able to take a 4 hour nap during the day, something he hasnt done since he was a baby. He woke up refreshed, happy, well behaved and really chatty. It was really a recharge boost. His body really needs the naps and the rest I wish he could do it more often, it doesnt have to be a daily thing but every now and then, I believe its good for him. He sleeps about 9 hours or less at night, never naps not even in the car, he only naps when he has a fever and usually just for a little while the 4 hours thing was amazing.
Hope ya’ll are having a great fun filled summer.