We just started our summer vacation. Bilal has completed a full year of special ed pre-k, and he’s done great, met and exceeded all expectations. He’s made so much progress in only 9 months. He started the school year barely speaking, sensory issues, and almost no eye contact at all. His IEP goals included stating full name, age, and gender when asked, to sit still for 5-8 minutes, to have no aversions towards messy media, etc. very basic things. In February he had met all these goals and I asked for an IEP amendment to keep him challenged and we wrote up a whole new IEP with new goals which he’s made progress in and if he keeps it up inshaAllah he’ll have met them all by the time of our next IEP meeting at the end of September. We’ve been very lucky and blessed to have an amazing team that really care for Bilal and his progress and who genuinely adore him. In December his class teacher left and for 6-8 weeks the TA’s and substitutes took over, until the 1st grade teacher transferred to become a special ed teacher. I was really sad to see his teacher go, she was very dedicated and I didn’t want a change in schooling so soon. After a bit of a slow start his new teacher learnt the ropes and has been great with Bilal and his goals, listening to all my concerns and helping me set up a PT evaluation and the IEP amendment meeting. His TAs are amazing people. Ms. English works with special needs teenagers and adults, helps out at a women’s shelter she is such a dedicated caring individual and Bilal was blessed to have someone like her. The other TA Ms. Abernathy is a young teacher still studying for her masters in special education, Bilal has a crush on her, she always plays with him, makes him laugh and helps motivate him with her own personal iPad, sadly she wont be there next year as the county has transferred her elsewhere. The two most important members of the team are his speech and OT therapists, Speech has come so far speaking in sentences now, answering most questions and started using pronouns correctly, OT is the one area where he didn’t make leaping bounds of improvement as his fine motor issues seem to be difficult to overcome, he still hates to color or write, but he can kinda scribble out his name, and he has overcome his aversion to playdoh, stickers and any other messy media.
Towards the end of the year I started thinking of what to get his teachers and therapists as “Thank you” gifts and as I’m not at all crafty or creative I decided to seek help elsewhere. Went to the local farmer’s market and found a young women selling her own organic hand made soaps, so I had her make little baggies for the teachers and I quickly wrote out thank you notes and gave them to the teachers at the End of Year Party. The next day they all sent home with Bilal their own thank you notes, thanking me for the gift but more thanks for letting me teach Bilal and how amazing he is and what a great sense of humor he has, I was speechless, I still get teary thinking about it, and feel really blessed to have such amazing dedicated people in our lives. I also got his bus driver and the bus driver assistant the same little gift bag and got thank you cards from them as well.
Now its summer and its loooong, 3 whole months I’m not sure how we’ll fill it up, his therapies are going on as usual, a session a week, we’ll be adding the myofunctional therapy and his teachers informed me of a 2 weeks sports camp in June, Ramadan is in July but I worry about him getting bored and regressing.
Next year he’ll be repeating pre-k as he has a late September birthday, he’ll be one of the oldest if not the oldest one in his class and he’ll be placed with Ms. Tiffany the other special ed teacher, she’ll be in charge of the 4+ year olds while his current teacher Ms. Bethany will have the 3 year olds. Its a little of a change, new teacher and TA’s but not drastic as he knows them and he’ll have the same therapists, cant wait until we start and get back to our typical routines.